Admin Note

All the boys matches from today are queued for Tomorrow and tonight (some are already posted over on our Instagram). I won’t be online much tomorrow and I have to work on set on Tuesday so I won’t be on on Tuesday either. 

<3

As you guys know I just moved and I’ve been working on set 3-5 days a week for 14 hours a day. This means I can’t be online to do matches because I’m at work. Right now I’m actually headed to set so by the time this posts, I’ll be at work. That being said I’m no longer going to be able to match most stuff the moment it comes out (unless I happen to be at home when it does). Most fashion blogs (le: fashionofglee) have a team of members that post one or two items a day (and when I was 14 you were lucky if a fashion blog ever posted more than one exact item per outfit and it took them a week at minimum to find anything); I’m one person finding full outfits for a band of 5 and trying to get it all done the day it comes out-and honestly that’s just not possible with the crazy hours I’ve been working, so for me to try and always be rushing to my laptop to try and hurry and get everything done when I have so much other stuff that needs to get done is really stressful (and when you do all that work and someone takes something from you it makes it really disheartening) So from now on I’ll be posting when I can and wait until I’ve found all the pieces I can from the outfit before posting. I’ll still be matching all the outfits but with the insane amount of hours I’ve been working there just isn’t a way for me to be online all the time, so I’ll do it in my free time and make sure everything is 100% accurate before I post so that you guys always know you’re buying something exact and you’ll have the whole outfit in one place instead of a bunch of different guides to hunt down. 

I love you all and I really hope you can understand <3

Alyssa

I hate to say it guys but I got back from work only about an hour ago and had a 13 hour shoot day. I’m exhausted. I’ll be working on matches tomorrow after I run errands. Love you guys <3

I finally got moved in last night which means I was able to start sending in my information for castings; I woke up this morning and out of the three I sent in for I booked one for a TV show with callbacks for a movie. This means that I’ll be spending multiple days at all different hours of the day on set without wifi or even a phone (phones arn’t allowed on set) so the activity level will go from posting as soon as photos come out to as soon as I can get to doing it after work. Most days on set at 12-15 hours, so if I worked that day I’ll be sleeping before I even look at a computer. I’ll still be doing matches and getting outfit guides up but it may not be as fast as it used to be because I just won’t physically be able to do it. 

I hope you guys understand! I don’t love you any less than I did before, I’m just not allowed to have a phone or laptop on set and I’ve got to work!

Alyssa <3

Okay guys there are over 45 matches in the queue right now to post over the following week or so. Tomorrow I’m driving 12 hours for the first part of my move and I won’t have wifi except the times I stop at a coffee shop, so I won’t be able to be on my laptop to make any new guides. Have an amazing week!

That someone has been sending out anons and messages from other fashion sites to people and signing ‘DressLikeR5’ to them and asking for info for giveaway purposes; These messages are not from me. The only time I send out messages I do it from THIS account or from Slythadorgirl; Never from an anon or other fashion account. (The only fashion blog I run is this one right here and as it is I hardly have time to keep everything updated.) If you get an anon/message from another account asking you for information, telling you to do something, saying things in a negative manner, or anything else please keep in mind that it is not me.  I want you all to stay safe out there!

I’ll also be updating my affiliates list today, some of our new Affiliates are American Eagle, Aerie, Hurley, Dovecameronstyle  and RydelLynchFashion so I’ll be working on the affiliates section today!

-Admin Alyssa 

Hey guys, I’m headed on a 10 hour roadtrip today and over the next week I’ll be apartment hunting, meeting up with old friends and filming a music video so I’ll be pretty busy. I’ll try to keep the site updated when I do have a chance to sit down and get wifi but some days (like tomorrow in the car and during the video filming) I can only be on my phone and I can’t do matches from there. If you want to follow any of the filming process I’ll be posting photos over at alyssabethcarson <3

Sorry for the lack of activity. People have been visiting all day since Christmas eve and I’m currently sick with the flu. :( I’ll do my best to work on all your requests tomorrow! <3

But I felt it needed to be addressed. I’ve been very busy these past few months. I’ve moved 4 states away because my parents got divorced and I started a new job while trying to save up money to move 6 more states away in the next month’s time. My family is struggling with money right now which makes it even harder and means I need to work more hours. On top of that I’m helping my mom get ready for Christmas and I’m doing photoshoots and sewing on the side to make extra money. I’ve been staying up super late (usually getting only 5-6 hours a sleep a night) just to make sure I keep all the matches up to date and getting everything posted for you guys. I set aside a little bit of money every week from my paycheck to make sure I could go to the concert to do the interview for you guys and so I could send out Christmas cards and do a small giveaway this year; and I’m sorry it couldn’t have been more cards/a bigger giveaway but my family is literally having a hard time making sure we have enough food every week. I pour my heart and soul into this blog, because even though it’s a hobby I’ve met so many amazing people through it and so many of you have asked for help that I don’t want anyone to walk away without having been helped or talked to. I’m not saying this because I want you guys to stop talking to me, (because I love talking to you!) but because I’ve seen a lot of people (or someone. You can’t tell with anons) saying things about me treating people badly and while I know I’ve not treated anyone that way, not everyone else is going to know that; and I’ve always tried to make it clear that everyone is welcome here. Whether you want to talk about fashion or something going on in your life I will always do my best to make time for you. If you ever feel that I haven’t please bring it to my attention so that I can fix it. I am very busy but I want each and every one of you to know that you’re special and loved and if you’ve not felt that way here I want to make sure I can make it that way for you too.  So please feel free to come to me with anything and if you don’t like something about something I’ve said you can always come to me about that too. I’ll listen. <3

-Alyssa

“See only live. Hear only love. Spread only love.”-Stormie Lynch

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